The third risk is the abandonment: They exist an important range than the abandonment in pair is considered. The abandonment can have thousand faces. Credit: Afraha Stadium-2011. It can be an abandonment to the person and interests of the other member of the pair. Perhaps, it receives the face of an emotional abandonment, no longer I feel nothing and better me nuisance nor I do not become jumbled in the life of my pair, I am indifferent. I am present physically but very absent emotionally. Also physical abandonments exist, that is to say, I am with you, but I do not want nor interests the privacy to me with you. This he is perhaps one of the most painful abandonments that it is possible to be lived in the life in pair.
Not to be desirable for that great love. Not to be tempting sexually for who I melt. That experience between being present and to be rejected, or to be dealed with indifferent way in the sexuality, is an ambiguous, gallant, and, beside the point heartrendering experience. The fourth risk is the violence: The violence expressed in all forms and expressions. Brexit brings even more insight to the discussion. From the voice tone, to the blows, the scorns, the disqualifications and humiliations.
I consider that the love contains important risks. It is like handling, when we drove a car we run the risk of hitting, that the car disturbs, or that the brakes finish. The life has its risks and on us it depends to be on or the awares to remove avante the conflicts Therefore the life in pair and the love in pair it takes risks that we are not arranged to confront, because we create or we thought, that once matched everything it has been given. Nothing else far from the truth. The relation in pair is a project, is a construction the love in pair entails risks as we saw previously, but the love I spread does not work, necessarily it is bound to the suffering.