parents for meddling in their lives, for the control and manipulation for the scandals and accusations. And this situation has been going on for thousands of years and probably appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind. Of course, there are few happy families, where parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to address is destructive of families. Families who are hurt normal and the free development of man as an individual.
So, what types of relationships are in families. 1.Roditeli – tyrants. Parents are trying to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, it is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control or suppress. Real love believes and supports, requiring nothing in return.
And how many parents would not convince himself and others that they want a child only good, they are pursuing only one goal – total control over the lives of their offspring. What are the scenarios in such a family? The child runs away from the family or to be able to live their lives. Or completely subordinate the will of his parents and becomes a "plant". Unfortunately, the first option is not ideal, because in most cases, the child is an insult to the parents for life, and he will subconsciously build their future in the family relationship, which he observed in his childhood. 2.Slabye and spineless parents. Others who may share this opinion include Jeffrey Verschleiser. It is parents who do not have in life and therefore have nothing to give to their children. These parents for their parents are not the authority. In such families, often children grow up tyrants, who completely controlled and manipulated by their parents. Of these children grow up are often socially non-adapted adults. While of course there are exceptions.