parents for meddling in their lives, for the control and manipulation for the scandals and accusations. And this situation has been going on for thousands of years and probably appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind. Of course, there are few happy families, where parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to address is destructive of families. Families who are hurt normal and the free development of man as an individual.
So, what types of relationships are in families. 1.Roditeli – tyrants. Parents are trying to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, it is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control or suppress. Real love believes and supports, requiring nothing in return.
And how many parents would not convince himself and others that they want a child only good, they are pursuing only one goal – total control over the lives of their offspring. What are the scenarios in such a family? The child runs away from the family or to be able to live their lives. Or completely subordinate the will of his parents and becomes a "plant". Unfortunately, the first option is not ideal, because in most cases, the child is an insult to the parents for life, and he will subconsciously build their future in the family relationship, which he observed in his childhood. 2.Slabye and spineless parents. Others who may share this opinion include Jeffrey Verschleiser. It is parents who do not have in life and therefore have nothing to give to their children. These parents for their parents are not the authority. In such families, often children grow up tyrants, who completely controlled and manipulated by their parents. Of these children grow up are often socially non-adapted adults. While of course there are exceptions.
In Russia, especially in large cities, have long presence in the country at home and two or three machines in one family has become almost standard. It has become common to hire people to work at home and it is quite reasonable point. Attract domestic staff in Moscow are not only wealthy people, this service has become affordable even for middle-class population, as everyone tries to leave the maximum free time. All changed during the Great October Revolution, when have any indentured servants in families, is the exploitation of labor, and was banned. Of course, the assistants in the home (housekeepers, maids, governesses and housekeepers) still were. They were allowed to hire scientists, writers and poets, politicians and other people who held high positions. It was at this time and the first universlnye au, which became known as housekeepers. In recent years the situation has changed and now is not it shameful to raise pomoshnits at home or nannies, babysitters services have become popular.
It should be noted that, even with ordinary income family wants to use the services of domestic staff in order to, without being distracted by various household stuff and be able to build a career. The distribution of the demand for nannies and housekeepers is due, firstly, income (in the big cities it is much higher), and in addition to the total number of households which can afford to draw helpers around the house. What if I need to hire qualified personnel for farming? Of course, you can use the recommendations of friends or an ad in the newspaper requires the governess', where very often looking for jobs governess, but nevertheless correct to refer to firms that can provide professional helpers. Typically, the selection of domestic workers through a special agency, means that potential applicants are detailed verification by means of special tests of aptitude, so you can hope that you will recommend a well-trained staff. After that, you sign a contract of employment of staff with an agency that provides these services.
Come this exciting time for the baby and mom – the first hike in the garden. How to help your child pass the test? How not to miss the importance of this moment? If you want to hike your child to kindergarten was not accompanied by tantrums and screaming, you need to prepare in advance the baby. We begin with the regime. Must pre-teach the child to get up at exactly 7:00. Morning collections often become a nightmare for both mother and baby. Try to turn this procedure into the game – "Who is faster?". Set the child actually possible time for dressing and water treatments – a 5-minute stretch beacons, the 10 – to make a morning toilet. Your competition will serve as a good incentive for the child.
Gradually introduce the child into a new social circle. It should not be the first day of your child all day. It's better to just give him a walk, to discuss with him his experience of communicating with teacher and children, to encourage him for the correct communication. It is better to give the child the first week of kindergarten for 2-3 hours. Explain that the time for him to fly is not noticeable, and you'll soon pick it. Solve the problem of supply.
Explain educator and his assistant, what products do not love your child and ask them not to be forced to eat them. Build relationships with the director and educator. Need to find a common language with people who will be responsible educating your child. Do not be cases where you have to not only defend their interests, but also listen to their opinion. Try to avoid conflicts. This allows you to not only keep your nervous system, but and their dignity. If desired, you can always find a way to peaceful resolution of conflict situations and to defend its interests and, above all, the interests of the child. Be prepared for the child's illness. Even if you give your child in the most wonderful garden, your child will be exposed to infections that spread in the children's team immediately. To reduce the number of viral diseases of the child, increase his immunity, often feed him vitamins. Typically, the third week of visits to the kindergarten, the immunity is weakened by contact with other children, stress. Seasoned child goes through these trials much easier. Play in kindergarten at home. Role educator should fulfill your child. In this simple game you can clearly see the atmosphere of relations in the garden and in the event of an alarm, it will be easier to adjust the educational process. It is better to own information to know what's going on in the soul of your child than to remain ignorant. The sooner you clear about the problems of the child, the faster you can help him. Performing these simple tips will help you and your child going to the garden to turn into joy.